Erotophoria

I’d like to share with you how I’ve learned to achieve more powerful orgasms with a few masturbation techniques and a Fleshlight.

Sounds tempting, eh?

I haven’t posted lately, and at the request of a few lovelies, I figured I’d illuminate a bit about one of my favorite subjects after I give my poor excuse for not posting.

As is a common Virgo habit, I’ve given myself too much work this winter break - I’m hoping to get a lot done before school starts up again but in the meantime I’ve had little time for fun… well, except for exploring masturbation techniques and enjoying the necessary orgasms I experience with my Fleshlight. But once the semester starts I should have interesting thoughts and experiences to share. With school comes social networking and with social networking cums… you get the idea, I’m sure.

Before I begin, if you don’t know what the Fleshlight craze is all about Click Here. (Link opens in a new window) When you’ve got a basic understanding, come back here and I’ll reveal a few nifty masturbation techniques.

It seems I can’t rave enough about my pleasant little pink lady. Surely if you’ve gotten this far in my private erotic blog you’ve heard me talk about her. But I’m sure the real question: Is the hype about “increased performance” and enjoying heightened orgasms through better masturbation the marketers peddle true? Rather then talk about all men I’ll talk about something of which I’m familiar: myself.

Ever since she showed up on my front door I’ve had more powerful orgasms, even with partners. I’ve narrowed it down to three reasons:

1. I’m not using my heavily calloused hands anymore, so my pleasant little pecker has become more sensitive then I can remember.
2. Because I’m more sensitive I can more easily appreciate the soft slippery sensations of a lover’s warm, wet embrace.
3. Through the same visualization technique sports athletes use to “will” themselves into “the zone”, when I use my Fleshlight I can more easily imagine myself inside of a lover, experiencing the type of pleasurable sensations I’d share with her.

So, now that I’ve validated some of the marketing hype, here are a few little tips, tricks, and my own personal masturbation techniques, as promised, which I enjoy when using my pink lady.

My first suggestion:

Believe in the Power of a Pillow and a Fleshlight.

If the Fleshlight is the most enlightened invention for male sexual pleasure ever then the pillow comes as a close second. There’s little more satisfying then laying a big, fluffy body pillow between my legs before I go to sleep and pressing my hard manhood against its soft, conforming shape. Not only does hugging a pillow make it easier for me to imagine I have a lover in my bed with me while I drift into sleep - something which this young, and often single, insatiable lover can never enjoy too often - but I can also gently rock my hips and feel a bit of gentle pleasure, soothing my mind into a comfortably numb sensation before I drift into sleep.

A short while ago - I won’t say how long ago for anonymities sake - this loving hippie used to be frequented by an often terribly confused nymphomaniac. She was one of those adorable college girl sweethearts who always seemed to need comforting because of life’s brutal and unforgiving nature. Every so often she’d call me on the phone and ask if she could talk with me for a bit, her voice always a bit wounded. Usually when she called she’d ask if she could come over. In keeping with my insatiable need to give affection I made sure she felt welcome in my bedroom.

I couldn’t tell which she enjoyed more: my habit of listening silently, unless asking key questions, my warm hands caressing her body, or all the kissing, cuddling and fondling before sleep.

She was never one to get hot and heavy quickly, but I always appreciated the warm, wet embrace she’d give my throbbing manhood in the middle of the night. She was always welcoming of being woken up for a spooning session of gentle, orgasmic bonding. To this day, waking a woman up in the middle of the night for some twilight sex is always an appreciated form of shared appreciation, no matter how tired I may feel.

Here’s where the Fleshlight can be incredibly pleasurable: anytime I wake up and feel the void of a lover’s absence I place my lovely little orgasm inducing orifice in the middle of a pillow, fold the pillow in half and insert my lubed up self into her welcoming little love hole.

In a dreamy, half-awake state, it’s easy for me to imagine I’m holding a cherished woman, like my confused and helpless little nymphomaniac, while I rock my hips back and forth, feeling myself throb inside her wet embrace.

My second suggestion:

Turn up the Heat for More Pleasure

I once knew a woman who was like an oven. Whenever she was turned on her normally pale skinned would blush, slowly at first, in small patches, until her entire body would glow with her passion. Her flesh would eventually turn a deep shade of reddish pink and she’d pour out heat like she was on fire inside. The heat her wet embrace would exude around my eager cock was like no one else. And because she’d feel cold air very easily any time she was in this sexually charged state we always used lots of blankets and even more candles. I’m sure this much can easily be inferred, but dancing in the flames of passion with my Goddess of Fire was some of the best sex I’ve ever experienced.

One of my favorite ways to masturbate is to remind myself of my Goddess of Fire by soaking my Fleshlight in hot water. Just a few minutes of floating around in piping hot water straight from the tap and my pleasant pink lady is ready to inspire my erotic imagination with realistic sensations.

In fact, it’s become standard practice for this insatiable lover to combine the hot little love box with the folded pillow technique, change up the positions a bit, and relish in hot, wet sensations.

Just be careful when you use this hot Fleshlight masturbation technique. Learn from my mistake: if your little pink wonder is hot for your hands you’ll feel it even more through your penis!

My third suggestion:

Remember: A Woman is a Woman and a Fleshlight is Too

Even though every orgasm my pink lady gives me reminds me of the sensations a real woman can give she can never responds to and give affection quite like a real lover. The real secret for this hippie when using a Fleshlight is to remember, or imagine, the shared pleasure of a real woman.

How does this translate into a masturbation technique? Simple: every time I make love to, or even just fuck, a woman I can keep that erotic encounter with me. Keeping my Fleshlight filled with fresh erotic fantasies spurned on by real lovers is the real secret to more powerful orgasms when masturbating.

If my little concessions, my most cherished Fleshlight masturbation techniques, have been of interest, then Click Here to see how you can get a Fleshlight for yourself – in case you’re curious.

Ladies:

If you buy one for your lover be sure to let him think it’s for his own pleasure. It can be our little secret that a Fleshlight will train him to better appreciate your most wonderful gifts.

Pleasant orgasms,

~Virgohippy

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