Comments on: Aggressive & Erotic Asphyxiation http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/ Explicit Fantasies • Romantic Erotica • Candid Sex Talk Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:53:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.5 by: Pure Porn Fed » Blog Archive » Aggressive & Erotic Asphyxiation http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-31 Tue, 09 Jan 2007 18:31:21 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-31 [...] You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your ownsite. [...] […] You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your ownsite. […]

]]> by: The Walrus http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-28 Tue, 26 Dec 2006 23:29:14 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-28 I guess I'm just too dominant to ever be on the recieving end of this type of erotic pleasure. I do know that I truly enjoy wrapping my hands around a pretty little things neck and seeing the moment of panic come to her eyes as we both realize that in this moment total control has been turned over. I guess I’m just too dominant to ever be on the recieving end of this type of erotic pleasure.

I do know that I truly enjoy wrapping my hands around a pretty little things neck and seeing the moment of panic come to her eyes as we both realize that in this moment total control has been turned over.

]]> by: Simon http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-26 Sat, 23 Dec 2006 13:45:04 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-26 I'm not suggesting that anyone here try this at home. In fact I suggest that you do NOT do these kinds of things. (That should keep the lawyers happy.) But I admit that there is a certain rush that comes from having your life in someone else's hands in a very literal way. Watching someone you're holding underwater in a bathtub with a plastic bag duct-taped tightly over their head approach the point where you know any reasonable person would tap out, and instead seeing them smile at you and nod as they close their eyes in trust... Trusting that you'll jerk them out of the water right before their eyelids close for good and that you'll tear the bag open ... well, it's not for everyone, and it may not sound very erotic to most people, but for those who've danced on that edge, there's a reason they keep going back. I've probably shared too much here, so remember, don't do these things without proper adult supervision. I’m not suggesting that anyone here try this at home. In fact I suggest that you do NOT do these kinds of things. (That should keep the lawyers happy.) But I admit that there is a certain rush that comes from having your life in someone else’s hands in a very literal way.

Watching someone you’re holding underwater in a bathtub with a plastic bag duct-taped tightly over their head approach the point where you know any reasonable person would tap out, and instead seeing them smile at you and nod as they close their eyes in trust…

Trusting that you’ll jerk them out of the water right before their eyelids close for good and that you’ll tear the bag open … well, it’s not for everyone, and it may not sound very erotic to most people, but for those who’ve danced on that edge, there’s a reason they keep going back.

I’ve probably shared too much here, so remember, don’t do these things without proper adult supervision.

]]> by: Virgohippy http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-24 Thu, 14 Dec 2006 19:06:59 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-24 No no, not strangling someone: being strangled by someone! There's a big difference. :-P No no, not strangling someone: being strangled by someone! There’s a big difference. :-P

]]> by: Annette http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-23 Thu, 14 Dec 2006 18:30:15 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-23 I'm with Sue on this one. Submission, yes, by all means. Actually strangling someone? hmmmmm not sure about that... though, by all means, if you do it safely and it gives you pleasure, go for it baby! I’m with Sue on this one. Submission, yes, by all means. Actually strangling someone? hmmmmm not sure about that… though, by all means, if you do it safely and it gives you pleasure, go for it baby!

]]> by: Virgohippy http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-22 Thu, 14 Dec 2006 18:21:15 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-22 If you're up for something a little less intimidating, holding your breath or breathing really slowly on command can be exciting too. Force of will games have achieved similar effects for me, though I do enjoy the enhanced feeling of vulnerability that comes with using hands. Actually, I rarely bring up my little kink in relationships, because as you stated, it takes a lot of trust. Not only in the measure of the person's character, but I also need to feel confident that the person controlling my breathe knows what they're doing. The nice thing about training with people in martial arts is that a lot of that trust develops very quickly, though it's only a tease compared to the intimacy of a real sexual encounter. :( If you’re up for something a little less intimidating, holding your breath or breathing really slowly on command can be exciting too. Force of will games have achieved similar effects for me, though I do enjoy the enhanced feeling of vulnerability that comes with using hands.

Actually, I rarely bring up my little kink in relationships, because as you stated, it takes a lot of trust. Not only in the measure of the person’s character, but I also need to feel confident that the person controlling my breathe knows what they’re doing.

The nice thing about training with people in martial arts is that a lot of that trust develops very quickly, though it’s only a tease compared to the intimacy of a real sexual encounter. :(

]]> by: Sue http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-21 Thu, 14 Dec 2006 16:23:33 +0000 http://www.erotophoria.com/blog/2006/12/14/aggressive-erotic-asphyxiation/#comment-21 Interesting but to far out even for me! We often get into submissive sex and really enjoy it. I agree pain and pleasure with someone you trust is a huge turn on. Asphyxiation is someone that does not appeal to me. In fact, it really scares me a bit. I am glad you took the time to link to some important information about this. In addition, total trust would be a must in this kind of sex play as you stated. I am all for couples being able to do what they please though. If it is done right and it turns you on good for you! Interesting but to far out even for me! We often get into submissive sex and really enjoy it. I agree pain and pleasure with someone you trust is a huge turn on.

Asphyxiation is someone that does not appeal to me. In fact, it really scares me a bit. I am glad you took the time to link to some important information about this. In addition, total trust would be a must in this kind of sex play as you stated.

I am all for couples being able to do what they please though. If it is done right and it turns you on good for you!

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